Becoming a player has more to do with your mentality than it does your physical appearance. You don’t have to be the hottest guy in the club to be a player. You just need to know what approach to take and have confidence in yourself and in no time you will be picking up girls left and right. We have some tips that will help you get player status and pick up almost any woman you want.
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1. Be mentally prepared
There are women around you everywhere. A player is always ready to pick up a woman, no matter where they are. Whether they are walking down the street and spot someone or grocery shopping. You will find beautiful women everywhere and therefore mentally, you need to be prepared to pick them up. So as you step out, be sure to be ready to pick up a woman, no matter where your destination is. This will allow you to stay on top of your game as you step out.
2. No cheesy pickup lines
Pick up lines are no longer the way to pick up women, they tend to be cheesy and put women off. You are no longer a teenager that pick up lines would melt a girl’s heart. You need to be spontaneous with your conversation and talk about something real. Maybe comment on what she is wearing or strike up a conversation about the surrounding. Using pickup lines will only put her off and won’t do much to break the ice.
3. Rejection is a part of life
A player is never afraid to be rejected. Yes, rejection hurts at first but with time you get used to it and it no longer affects your self-esteem or ego. If you have a fear of rejection then you won’t even consider putting yourself out there, which means you won’t take the chance of even talking to a woman. If you go into a conversation, trying to pick up a woman with the fear of rejection chances are it will show. You will lack confidence which generally puts women off and your chances of picking her up will be slim to none. So just forget about rejection, we all strike out at times but that doesn’t mean we give up.
4. Don’t compliment too much
The thing to being a player is that you keep your cool about things. Don’t go overboard with the compliments, you want to keep the girl in check. Chances are if you are hitting on her, she is already hot and probably knows it. So you can compliment her on something specific about her looks but don’t constantly keep complimenting her. You can even throw in some negative hits as teases just to keep her in check and not to drive her ego up too much. By negative hits, you want to playfully tease her, not go all out and insult her. These are actually compliments in disguise with a negative element to them.
Being a player takes a little bit of work and a lot of confidence. If you follow our tips and give them time, then in due time you will become a player and easily pick up women whenever you want.